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Start With What You’re Avoiding

One habit has shaped my work and leadership more than almost anything else: I try to do one hard thing every day, and I try to do it first. Every morning, as part of my routine, I review both my daily goals and my larger annual goals. That simple practice keeps me from drifting. It reminds me what matters, what moves the needle, and what is merely noise. Somewhere in that review, there is usually one task sitting in front of me that I know I do not want to do. It is inconvenient, uncomfortable, costly, or emotionally demanding. And almost always, it is the very thing that matters most.

In business, the hard thing is rarely the loudest thing. It is often the conversation you have been avoiding, the decision you have delayed, the boundary you need to set, the expense you need to cut, the system you need to build, or the risk you know you need to take. Sometimes the hard thing means adding something your business needs: a discipline, a hire, a process, a difficult conversation, a courageous step. Just as often, it means subtracting something: an unhealthy pattern, an unprofitable offer, a misaligned client, a distraction, or an outdated identity. Growth is not just built by addition. It is often built by strategic subtraction.

From the place of an entrepreneur, doing the hard thing first is both practical and deeply strategic. It protects your best energy for your highest-value work. It reduces decision fatigue. It trains your mind to stop negotiating with resistance. And it creates a culture inside yourself where courage leads and comfort follows. When the hardest item is placed at the front of the day, whether as the first task on the list, the first block on the calendar, or the first meaningful meeting, you increase the likelihood that it actually gets done. You stop hoping your discipline will show up later, after the easy work, and instead you put your discipline to work when it matters most.

What I have found is that this rhythm changes more than productivity; it changes identity. Day after day, you become someone who does not run from friction. You become someone who handles the important before the urgent, the meaningful before the convenient. And over time, that compounds. Businesses grow this way. Leaders grow this way. Lives grow this way. So my encouragement is simple: do not build your day around what is easiest. Build it around what is most necessary. Do the hard thing first, and let that daily act of courage quietly shape the business and life you are trying to build.

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